At the first Memorial Day ceremony held in Arlington National Cemetery, small flags were placed at every marker, starting a tradition that is carried on to this day.
Have you ever been to Arlington? I have. My father, a hero in my eyes, is buried there.
Richard E. Ruffin was born on August 24, 1927, during WWII he was in the Navy and as
the story goes as soon as my 6 foot four inch tall dad got off the Navel ship he walked across the street and joined the Army. During the next years he was in Korea, two deployments in Germany and one tour in Vietnam. He received the Bronze star, the Purple Heart and several commendations. How I wish I had somehow asked the right questions to learn more about that time of his life.
My dad loved America. He taught me to value the freedoms that we have. I might not like everything America does or the decisions that some of our leaders make, but I know that we have freedoms that other people do not enjoy. Why? Only one reason. Because, people like my dad fought for those freedoms, died for them, protected them.
Since this is supposed to be a blog about things on and off the stage…I’d like to remember that we have the freedom of speech.
“Freedom of speech is the right to articulate one’s opinions and ideas without fear of government retaliation or censorship, or societal sanction.”
Freedom of speech allows me to write this blog freely–to express my opinions about God, if I so desire–and to not fear government censorship. This is just one of the reasons I’m thankful for America.
This week let’s join together and remember the cost of our freedoms and the people who gave their all for us.
Here are some of my favorite quotes:
“It is foolish and wrong to mourn the men who died. Rather we should thank God such men lived.”– George S. Patton
“My fellow Americans, ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country.” – John F. Kennedy
I have never been able to think of the day as one of mourning; I have never quite been able to feel that half-masted flags were appropriate on Decoration Day. I have rather felt that the flag should be at the peak, because those whose dying we commemorate rejoiced in seeing it where their valor placed it. We honor them in a joyous, thankful, triumphant commemoration of what they did. ~Benjamin Harrison
These heroes are dead. They died for liberty – they died for us. They are at rest. They sleep in the land they made free, under the flag they rendered stainless, under the solemn pines, the sad hemlocks, the tearful willows, and the embracing vines. They sleep beneath the shadows of the clouds, careless alike of sunshine or of storm, each in the windowless Place of Rest. Earth may run red with other wars – they are at peace. In the midst of battle, in the roar of conflict, they found the serenity of death. I have one sentiment for soldiers living and dead: cheers for the living; tears for the dead. ~Robert G. Ingersoll
Do you know someone that served our country? Do you have a favorite story about them? Do you have a thought about freedom or Memorial Day? I’d love to hear your thoughts!
Until next time!
5 thoughts on “Memorial Day–Remembering the Cost of Freedom”
Wow! What an honorable and patriotic man your Dad was, Reba! We take our freedoms for granted in America. My dad fought in the first and Second World War (as an MP). At one point, he carried a live bomb across a bridge that was the link to necessary supplies for his troops. But my favorite is his task of wandering through European towns ravaged by war, looking for children who were left alone and destitute. He made sure they were looked after. We are both blessed by our father’s legacies!
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That’s incredible about your dad! I would love to hear more about him!
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Thank you, Reba. I liked your post, and appreciated the reminder about the flags on the grave. My father-in-law and his wife are interred at Arlington. I allude to them in the blog I wrote this week about Gen. Patton’s prayer and the need to pray for the country. I’m adding the link here in case you’ve time. Settle in with some coffee. Meanwhile, who is the source of your freedom quote above? The first one? I like the Harrison quote about half-staffed flags. I’d never heard him quoted before, even though I’ve visited his home and his resting place in our home town. Thanks for sharing.
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Thank you for sharing. I don’t have my computer with me and that’s where my sources are stored. Let me get back to you.
oops: The link — https://wp.me/p300Xo-lZ